Very good point. And in any case all these symptoms you mentioned I would now say don't need treating nor suppressing at all but rather supporting with rest and fluids.
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Very good point. And in any case all these symptoms you mentioned I would now say don't need treating nor suppressing at all but rather supporting with rest and fluids.
In most cases, this is probably true. Unfortunately, other cases can become more serious. My mother came down with these typical symptoms and thought she'd get better -- as she always had. For whatever reason, this particular time that did not happen. She descended into pneumonia -- at home -- (became blue, skin clammy, hard to breathe). A bit of a story here, but finally got her to the hospital where doctors said they were "doing everything we know to do, but we can't get her heart to keep beating..." Her heart did stop and she died at age 57. MI brought on by "complications" from the "flu."
From what you say though it seems that neither support nor allopathic medicine helped, and whatever poison or stress it was she was unable to detox from for whatever reason meant that she died.
If it was me I would want to die in peace at home x
So sorry she did not have access to an authentic Homeopath. However, if your mother's passing occurred in hospital after 2019, I would have considered it suspect. So many well meaning, innocent, bereaved relatives are suffering with the "covid" hospital deaths, and asking questions with answers they would prefer not to know. She "has gone ahead to prepare a place for you..."
Thank you. Living elsewhere, I traveled home on Saturday to see my mother because she was so sick. It was the long Presidents' Day weekend in 1984. I could see how sick she was when I got home. By Sunday, I knew she was really in trouble -- and I knew she did not want to go to the hospital. My father was still convinced she'd be OK, but I knew otherwise. Torn between her reluctance and the realization that she needed help, I told my father to call the ambulance...
Don't call the ambulance and leave her to die? But what if there is a chance? Maybe she can be helped, and if so, how do I live with that if I don't get her help?
To this day, I have my moments of torment over whether I did the right thing. She was the light of my life.
I think I understand your dilemma - how could you possibly know if they could have saved her, and she was so young. Yet she wanted to stay at home.
I live with my 90 year old mum and presumably one day I'll be faced with this choice. I know this is different as she's much older and already told me see doesn't want resuscitation nor extended life if quality is poor, and has a living will.
But watching her suffer and 'doing nothing' will be hard I think. I know acupuncture can relive pain so am going to get in contact with some local people.
I think that there is no 'right or wrong' thing to do. We cannot make mistakes as there is no parallel universe where we make a different decision to find out if we did the right thing. I think we know that your mum would have loved you and forgiven you, if that was even needed, for whatever decision you made out of deep love for her.
Lots of love to that daughter caught between a rock and a hard place. It was impossible. Be very kind to her x
Thank you. 😊 My mother had made no prior clear directive on this point. If she had, it would have been honored. So many thoughts went through my head...I have asked for her forgiveness many times. Thank you for the reminder to be kind to myself. I try. 😊
My dad died at 72. Until then I didn't realise how much I loved him, but interestingly nor did I realise how much he loved me. I'm not sure how his death informed me of this, but it did. If he were looking down on me recriminating myself for this or that in our relationship, I feel he would not want that at all. He would forgive me anything and everything and want me to be happy and whole so he could continue living with love including self love and forgiveness through me.
Love is love is love. When we leave this plane of existence, all those fears and wonderings go flying off somewhere, and the Real Thing is all we know.
Sending you and STL such big warm vibes of huggage-- mmmmm!
Well, at least, in 1984, you had a fair chance of a caring or "ethical" hospital. A very hard call indeed. I hope you have found peace with your decision and the fact that you are a kind and beloved daughter to a wonderful, loving mother...
Very good point. And in any case all these symptoms you mentioned I would now say don't need treating nor suppressing at all but rather supporting with rest and fluids.
🙏🏽
In most cases, this is probably true. Unfortunately, other cases can become more serious. My mother came down with these typical symptoms and thought she'd get better -- as she always had. For whatever reason, this particular time that did not happen. She descended into pneumonia -- at home -- (became blue, skin clammy, hard to breathe). A bit of a story here, but finally got her to the hospital where doctors said they were "doing everything we know to do, but we can't get her heart to keep beating..." Her heart did stop and she died at age 57. MI brought on by "complications" from the "flu."
so sorry about your mum.
From what you say though it seems that neither support nor allopathic medicine helped, and whatever poison or stress it was she was unable to detox from for whatever reason meant that she died.
If it was me I would want to die in peace at home x
🙏🏽
Moi, aussi.
So sorry she did not have access to an authentic Homeopath. However, if your mother's passing occurred in hospital after 2019, I would have considered it suspect. So many well meaning, innocent, bereaved relatives are suffering with the "covid" hospital deaths, and asking questions with answers they would prefer not to know. She "has gone ahead to prepare a place for you..."
Oh, no. I'm so sorry.
Thank you. Living elsewhere, I traveled home on Saturday to see my mother because she was so sick. It was the long Presidents' Day weekend in 1984. I could see how sick she was when I got home. By Sunday, I knew she was really in trouble -- and I knew she did not want to go to the hospital. My father was still convinced she'd be OK, but I knew otherwise. Torn between her reluctance and the realization that she needed help, I told my father to call the ambulance...
Don't call the ambulance and leave her to die? But what if there is a chance? Maybe she can be helped, and if so, how do I live with that if I don't get her help?
To this day, I have my moments of torment over whether I did the right thing. She was the light of my life.
Oh my love.
I think I understand your dilemma - how could you possibly know if they could have saved her, and she was so young. Yet she wanted to stay at home.
I live with my 90 year old mum and presumably one day I'll be faced with this choice. I know this is different as she's much older and already told me see doesn't want resuscitation nor extended life if quality is poor, and has a living will.
But watching her suffer and 'doing nothing' will be hard I think. I know acupuncture can relive pain so am going to get in contact with some local people.
I think that there is no 'right or wrong' thing to do. We cannot make mistakes as there is no parallel universe where we make a different decision to find out if we did the right thing. I think we know that your mum would have loved you and forgiven you, if that was even needed, for whatever decision you made out of deep love for her.
Lots of love to that daughter caught between a rock and a hard place. It was impossible. Be very kind to her x
Thank you. 😊 My mother had made no prior clear directive on this point. If she had, it would have been honored. So many thoughts went through my head...I have asked for her forgiveness many times. Thank you for the reminder to be kind to myself. I try. 😊
My dad died at 72. Until then I didn't realise how much I loved him, but interestingly nor did I realise how much he loved me. I'm not sure how his death informed me of this, but it did. If he were looking down on me recriminating myself for this or that in our relationship, I feel he would not want that at all. He would forgive me anything and everything and want me to be happy and whole so he could continue living with love including self love and forgiveness through me.
With loving thoughts 🙏🏽
And I know your dad forgave you, too.
Love is love is love. When we leave this plane of existence, all those fears and wonderings go flying off somewhere, and the Real Thing is all we know.
Sending you and STL such big warm vibes of huggage-- mmmmm!
I KNOW she forgave you, I just know it.
❤️❤️❤️
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I hope you'll forgive my boldness, but I just posted this: https://shethinksliberty.substack.com/p/my-mothers-ring
My mother's passing is a part of this story...
Every atom in my body is "ringing" now... Joyful Christmas bells!
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All she really cared about was being around you, and her husband. Please don’t beat yourself up. It was her time to go.
Well, at least, in 1984, you had a fair chance of a caring or "ethical" hospital. A very hard call indeed. I hope you have found peace with your decision and the fact that you are a kind and beloved daughter to a wonderful, loving mother...